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Mona Ives (Islamic Society), Laurie Ross (Clark University), Rev. Daniel Gregoire (UU Society of Grafton and Upton), Rabbi Valerie Cohen (Temple Emmanuel Sinai, me, Predrag Cicovacki (Holy Cross), Frank Kartheiser (Worcester Interfaith), Michael True and Paul Ropp (Center for Nonviolent Solutions)
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Last night I was part of an event called "Community Voices for Peace" at the First Unitarian Church in Worcester, co-sponsored by the Islamic Society of Worcester and The Center for Nonviolent Solutions. Here's a version of what I said:
I
recently received a card from a friend with a poem by the Utah poet Jody
Richards:
In a torn
world,
may we know
new hope
and be
transformed –
winter into
spring,
hurt into
whole,
strife into
peace.
As
a Zen Buddhist teacher and priest, my vow is to save all beings from
suffering. We say in Zen that the
world is full of suffering, and that suffering comes in all shapes and sizes,
and it’s unavoidable. And we also
say that human beings are naturally prone to what we call the three
poisons: anger and ill-will, greed
and delusive certainty. That’s the
bad news.
The
good news is that human beings are capable of great love, wisdom and
balance. And we can realize these
wonderful qualities through the practice of opening and embracing what is
difficult – as Jody Richards says, we can transform hurt into whole, strife
into peace – and that this is as natural as winter turning into spring.
The
key to this process of transformation is acceptance and connection. We can embrace our fear, anger and
sadness, and then watch how the simple act of being willing to allow ourselves
to have these feelings allows them to change on their own – and shows us a path
of action that comes from love, wisdom and balance rather than anger, greed and
delusion.
I
continue to be encouraged, even in these difficult times, by an experience I
had while driving into Boston many years ago, when there were tolls on the Mass
Turnpike. This is real news, not
fake – I actually experienced it myself!
I drove through the toll
that would take me to route 128, and encountered a complete standstill. Hundreds of cars stuck, unable to move
– classic gridlock, with honking and swearing and frustration. I was headed in to teach a meditation
class, and I figured that I could try living what I taught. I turned off the car, and began to
meditate. At one point I looked
up, and saw someone watching me.
We smiled at each other, and then started laughing. Someone in another car saw us and
started laughing too. And so it
went, from one car to another, until everyone around was laughing – so hard
that tears were pouring from our eyes.
And then, the miracle of transformation happened – one person waved to
another to let a car go by, and then another and another. In just a few moments, we were all
headed where we wanted to go.
Don’t
turn away from people you don’t agree with – people who seem greedy, angry and
deluded. Stay present with what is
true for you, and then look around.
Make connections. Find a
way, even in this time of great darkness, to stay connected with yourself and
with others, and then, with all of your being, work actively and positively for
peace and justice.
